I Love Color – There Is Nothing Gray about Me

I like it when my garden screams! There is nothing subtle or subdued about me. When I paint, I celebrate color in another way. Even when I paint the green areas around my florals, I often flood them with color.

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In the Pink – Jacki Kellum Watercolor

I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.
-Audrey Hepburn-

I use the brighter colors to add punch to the green areas of my paintings. Too many people only see black and white — right or wrong. In my experience, that type of life-view is terribly narrow, and the people who cannot stretch themselves to see more of the variances of living are missing a great deal. Like Audrey Hepburn, I believe in Pink, and I also believe in Red and Yellow and Orange and Blue.

I am suspicious of people who are always gray. If you will look carefully, you will see that there are no gray flowers. Gray is a neutral. Gray is a lack of color, and while I am guilty of other weaknesses, I do not lack color. I have definite opinions. Some of my opinions are red. They are loud and they shout. Other of my opinions are softer and more like lilac. Some of my opinions, are bright and sunny yellow and others are cooler, like green, but when I am asked how I feel about something or what I think about something, I say what I honestly believe. I don’t weigh whether I am speaking to a group of people who prefer red or who prefer gray or green or black or white. I simply say things the way that I see them–to the best of my ability.

For people whose primary concern is that of finding approval, honesty is not always the best policy. The safer route is to ride the fence, but in my opinion, fence riders are gray. They are like piles of mashed potatoes.  Mashed-Potato-People have had the life boiled and whipped completely out of themselves. They have no color at all.

Life is not lived on the fence. We must have opinions.  We must take a stand in life.  In taking a stand, our lives can be differentiated from the gray, faceless mob. The only way to be meaningful in life is to let your life mean–to let it actually stand–to let it stand out, and to let it stand for something.

  1. In taking a stand, our lives can be differentiated.
  2. In taking stands in life, we do more than exist–we mean.
  3. The only way to be meaningful in life is to allow your life to mean.

When we begin to take a stand in life, there will people who absolutely hate us for our opinions; but in being real about who we are and about what we believe, we offer other people something real and tangible to love–we offer people an authentic mind, words with meaning, and color.


For My Facebook Friend
by Jacki Kellum

Screen seen,
Glitter glean,
Lonely people in between.
Reaching far,
Catch a star,
How I wonder who you are!

Social media has several limitations, and one of those limitations is that people might easily be controlled by a desire to be “liked” or disliked because of what they have said or posted. If contributors are not careful, they might begin to write to be” liked.” and they might quit writing what is real. The same thing can happen to bloggers. Simply to be liked–or at least not disliked, writers may begin standing in the middle of the road.

Standing in the middle of the road is very dangerous; you get knocked down by the traffic from both sides. – Margaret Thatcher

If you just set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time, and you would achieve nothing.– Margaret Thatcher

Herein lies the key: If you try to please all of the people all of the time, you have elected to stand for nothing concrete. To stand for something is to get off the fence and to get out of the middle of the road.

“You can please some of the people some of the time all of the people some of the time and some of the people all of the time, but you can never please all of the people all of the time.” –  Abraham Lincoln

I agree with Abraham Lincoln. Regardless of how we play the game, we will never please everyone. Selling our souls to try to please everyone doesn’t really work. When we write and say what we actually think, we do allow ourselves to move out of the gray, to be colorful, and to be real.

©Jacki Kellum April 26, 2017


14 Comments Add yours

  1. The sculpture is grey, though.

    1. jackikellum says:

      Lol, and somehow, I love that sculpture. It is the anchor of my garden, and perhaps, grey is also the anchor of my being. Excellent point.

  2. This is an insightful, truthful post. This particular subject is the hardest for me to grapple with. While I know this isn’t entirely true, everyone around me wants to be the same color. They all like the same thing, want the same thing, and talk the same. Most want to be part of the herd–own the latest, greatest cell phone, watch “Dancing with the Stars” and shop non-stop. I am the yellow flower in a sea of blue. I’m not on social media. I’ve chosen not to be intentionally. I don’t want to be mined for my information. I want to live in reality and not live on Facebook where sometimes what you see is fake and makes you feel your life is “less than”. I personally think Facebook is insidious, but few others see it that way. I am the Liberal who lives in a sea of Conservatives. I’m the person who protests with a sign by herself, when few others would. My walls are not white or some un-offending color. They are yellow, green, and blue. So, in short, your post hits a nerve. Thank you.

    1. jackikellum says:

      You go, Girl. And by the way, I’m on Facebook and by and large, I;m irked daily.

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  3. Love the title of your post, I’m all about the color too. The brighter, the better. 🙂

    1. jackikellum says:

      I agree

    1. jackikellum says:

      Thank you very much.

  4. Love your garden (including the little gray statue) that makes everything else stand out so wonderfully. smirk smirk

    1. jackikellum says:

      lol again

      1. I honestly didn’t notice him at first. I was enjoying the garden so much I overlooked him. Then wait, what? lol

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